What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch complete of attention and presence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact like that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Full of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not believe about yesterday or tomorrow. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or receiving the massage. An extremely mindful touch from the heart. Get likewise extremely knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are actually out of the concern. Everything occurs in the moment, in complete consciousness, lovingly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not meant (still, when that's what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about an established result
A tantric massage will constantly be various. You never know how it will turn out. It is not the method or the preferred series of rubbing that is very important, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love understands what to do, enjoy constantly has an appropriate reaction. Therefore the massage will be exactly that exactly what is needed. Enough is that the provider exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take an extremely unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long period of time, of course, but given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually turned up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver always need to be guaranteed. Caring attunement constantly comes.
Set clear limits ahead of time
Everyone (other than when you are informed) has his limits. This is human and is also necessary (check out the article on securing limits. So believe ahead of time (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Ensure there is an appropriate consumption, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries beforehand: about mental boundaries, as well as take care for clearness about physical limits. It is a misconception that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also totally ok (though hard to work with oil then). It is also a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensuous, however you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) limits. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural happy state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. In a split 2nd you can end up being enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but typically, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands different techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function other than self-realization: bring back the natural (delighted) state of being.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally great, sometimes delicious. We, therefore, invite you to fully delight in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and methods in typical. Yet there is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (aimed at recovery).
Not Treatment
Well because you are really incredibly energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is a profession apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage pointers-- prior to you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however also psychologically).
* Make clear arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is need complimentary, don't push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Don't just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Construct in combination (rest) moments.
Need free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves find enjoyable, fun, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "needs", stay away from your own problems and above all ... do not try to force anything. Nothing has to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Once again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are disappointed when somebody drops off to sleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard boundaries, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly very open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being excited is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are really essential! A lot can turn website up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limitations from being crossed again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer combination moments (simply doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean do not rush to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or perhaps disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery effect. It is possible that obstructions, psychological injuries concern the surface. There might be an emotional release, including physical reactions such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Despite the fact that tantra massage is not the very same as recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover exactly what it resembles to love yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that offers a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
Is enjoying.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Usually resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).